It took a person I have just recently met, to remind me of why I started writing in the first place. I then realized that I had become too in love with an idea and forgot about its true meaning. What do I mean? I recently submitted a piece on stating that friends are a sign of weakness, and the more I thought about it, friends are simply under-rated. In order to get close to someone, emotionally as well as physically, you must be able to trust them, and in order to trust them you must know them, and to know them developing a friendship is often the proper foundation.
I simply assumed that when a girl winked at me, or simply acknowledged my presence, that she was interested in me. That’s a 50-50 chance. Interested perhaps or being nice was the answer; the issue is you never know. You just have to late fate and destiny take its course though, sometimes for the better and others for the worse. However, friendship is often passed over like any other means to an end.
There is a difference between business and pleasure that I never really got into. For the past couple of months, I have been conditioned to put my best foot forward, and in talking sports “put up the points on the scoreboard” or produce results with no excuses. In an interview, you are given “one chance” to prove why you are the “best” candidate for that job. In a relationship, the same is true, however to a less degree. The only difference is you don’t have to come out of the starting gate like “Speedy Gonzalez”. In business, there is often that conflict between production and time. In a relationship, time and production is what you make of it, given the resources.
Monday, October 30, 2006
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